As a relationship coach, I can tell you that, sure, men are like women in that they want an attractive partner (::gasp::). But they also want a relationship where they feel pursued and desired (just like a woman wants shockingly enough!). And the way that so many women have been trained to have a sense of entitlement, to be “hard to get,” to expect to be practically worshipped physically but to show little of that back is why I hear a lot of men don’t want relationships. Men are tired of having to make the first move only to be rejected so often by women who praise each other for having high standards but then lambast men for having standards for themselves as well. And so many women tend to think that making the first move or pursuing a man is beneath them. Put yourself in the men’s shoes ladies. Is it any wonder so many have had enough?