As a relationship coach, I speak to so many men who basically have PTSD from being rejected so many times by so many women who think they are supposed to make it hard on them or something. And the women I speak to think that the men will just keep coming because they're turned on by her playing hard to get. But that isn't what's happening. The men tell me that they give up pretty quickly because since men are expected to pursue, they experience far more rejection than women and they just figure that this is another rejection. And women also seem baffled that men aren't blowing up their phones because, after all, they are playing hard to get like they are "supposed to." Stop playing games! Stop treating human beings this way. Be an adult.