Can you imagine if this article was written with the same words but speaking to women about men? Nope. It's really made to be so complicated for men these days and that's why so many are backing out. I mean, can you imagine a woman being told that saying, "Doing anything this weekend?" to a man “isn't enough” or "isn't going to cut it?" We wouldn't make it that difficult and demanding on women. Most men would be flattered and give her a simple straight answer. But men have to crack a dang code.