Being dumped is the experience that hurts like the first time, every time it happens.
The shock, the anxiety, the racing heart — a panicked reaction seems like the only sane one to have.
The person you thought you knew seems to be a sudden elusive mystery. Whereas they seemed warm and close to you — maybe even just a few days ago — now they seem cold, distant, and heartless.
The hurt, the loss, and the confusion become the perfect recipe that causes many people to beg their ex for mercy.
“Please take me back! I’ll do anything!”
Based on what you know of this person, surely they’ll take you back. Surely they’ll care.
But everything you know is wrong. According to relationship expert and coach, Lee Wilson, “At this moment, you and your ex are at polar opposites. You are pulled toward them and your ex is convinced that they won’t be happy going forward with you.” …Read More
