It is not hateful to point out that what you experienced and found unacceptable is what is typical of the experience of most men (and I have spoken to thousands). Not once did I attack women or you. I merely pointed out that your experience that you found to be unfair and required more work from you is what men face regularly. Someone pointing that out or having a different opinion to you is not hateful anymore than your article was for saying that what you experienced was difficult.