Yes, sometimes it takes a dose of reality. Few defend men and point out what they go through so I will. What you complained about is what men face everyday. Men face 100x the rejection and mind games. So yes, I’ll point that out. You experienced what men do. It would be great if you chose to point that out and encourage women to consider what men go through in dating and relationships because what you described is what it’s like to be a man who is on dating apps and they don’t get to simply choose another app.